Lovelines,

I am a girl of 16. I have been dating a guy for a very long time; anyway we grew up together. I love him very much. However, he has traveled but does call always. Abruptly he stopped calling I found out from the cousin the reason for that. The cousin told me he was arrested. Some of my friends are bothering me and want me to forget about him, but I can not because I love him. Can you please tell me what you think I can do, I really love him.

Toulie

A friend in need is a friend indeed. I admired your courage for able to know that this is the time for you to show that you love and care for him. Anyway your age as stated above shows that you are too young to be dating, but you have started it will be very difficult for me to say stop. So, continue showing him that you care, love and there for him come rain, come sunshine. But if he come out safely and you then quit it is okay, but this his temptation period do not forsake him. Good luck!

 
She lies against her uncle

Lovelines,

There is a girl I love so much with my heart. We are staying very closer to each other and she does visit me every weekend. One day she told me that her uncle said if she did not leave me he will kill her. But I know that the uncle did not say this. So what can I do?

Sambou

You do not need any fortune teller to tell you that she is not deeply in love with you anymore compare to when you just started the relation. What you should have done is to make her understand that you know her trick that the uncle didn’t say anything of such. If she does not want you let her say it openly than to use her uncle as an excuse or lie against him. So if you cannot cope with such act of not been straight forward then quit or you remain and continue with your love destiny in her hand. Good luck!

Mum is against our marriage

Lovelines,

I have been dating a man for 10 months now. We overly love ourselves, this guy wanted to marry me but my mum kicked against us because of religion differences. Sincerely I love this guy and I do not want to lose him. Can I take it in my own way and marry the man who his love is deeply rooted in my heart or should I oblige with my mum?

Tuti

Follow your heart. It is your happiness that matter most in the marriage. It is a long time tradition, which mother always decides for their children when it comes to marriage. If you really love the man reach an agreement with him about how both of you will serve the God according to individual believe. You have your life to live and your mother has hers in which she is living and from it she has you. So wake up. Good luck!

I am shy to approach her

Lovelines,

There is this woman in my office; really I am crazy about her. The main problem is that I am shy to approach her and express my love! What do I do to get her attention?

Lama

I do not know if you really know anything about courage and confident. Try as much as possible and remove fear from your mind summon courage and be confident enough so that you can let her know uncover able and floating feelings you have been nursing for her. Moreover, if you cannot say this direct, then show her through your actions towards her. Give her good compliments and shower her with love gifts that will reveal your intention for her with a lot of free love and romantic talks. Good luck!

What can you say about this?

If a man you have been living with for many years when he does not have anything but was pretending that he loves you because of his poor financial status and what he is getting from you. But when he got rich, he forget about what you have done for him in the past like house rent, food, pocket money and more over no more love or love making, what can you say about this? 

Sirrah

The short answer to this your problem is to leave everything for Allah to judge. Forget and forgive the person because he has eaten ‘harram’ - forbidden, because such man is ungrateful. Move on with your life so far you are not lazy. Either is a husband, wife, or just ordinary relation, leave the person and put your hope in Almighty Allah. He is always there for everyone. Good luck!

I cannot find true love

Lovelines,

I need help please. I am 29 but I have been searching for true love since I was 22 still I cannot find one. Although, I have gals but they don’t love me. My friends advised me to take my time so far there is time for every thing. Yet I don’t know what I have to do to get one!

Camara

Love is a product of habit that you need to cultivate. Try to know that your inability to secure permanent lady that will love you might be as a result of your attitude towards them. There is always a woman that will love a man but to find the real woman is what make some men jump from one place to another but they forget the statement above. So tell men in your category that in their (women) first passion, women love their lovers; in all the others, they love and love whoever that makes them happy and use to him. So it requires far more genius to make love than to command armies. So take your time your real love will come. Good luck!

She wants me to give her time

Lovelines,

I have been in courtship with a girl for 8 years, but in the past 2 years I have been seeking for her hands in marriage, but she always replies me negatively. But recently she wanted me to give her two months to think about it. Still I am very confused. Should I stop this relation or give her chance to think as she said?

Pa Fye

Try to give her benefit of doubt for the two months as promised if you really love her. After two months without positive answer, call it quit because you had waited enough. Probably she might not want you for marriage but find it difficult to tell you that she is not ready or interested in marrying you.

Our relationship is dull

Lovelines,

I am 19 dating a man who is 4 years older than me. We love ourselves dearly but my irregular visit to him, I think is making our relationship dull. This is as a result of my parents who are very strict because they do not allow me going out often. I don’t want to loose him.

Babung

It is your thought that your relationship is dull, but you can lift it up to the stage that you want through regular communication on the phone with each other. Start chatting with your guy in a romantic way and let him know that your not visiting him regularly is not by your doing but matter of time. Moreover, I think it will be very good for you because it will allow you to concentrate on your studies. If you want to be freed, try to have good grade this will impress your parents and you will gain your freedom without much ado. Good luck!

Her cousin called me at mid-night

Lovelines,

I am 28. I dated my girlfriend for 4 years before she traveled to England. One day at mid-night, her cousin called me and told me that my girlfriend is having another boyfriend. Later that day I sent a text to her and informed her about what I heard. Since then she has broke up with me. But I still love her. Should I tell her that her cousin told me that story or move on? Please help me.

Pablo

You had behaved childishly the way you handle the information passed to you by your girlfriend’s cousin. As a man you should have think twice because the girl involve is far away from you and the information might be true or false. At the same time it lacked evidence. Moreover it might be a set up. Already you have ruined it up but still have the option of telling her your source of information if she will listen to you and if not move on. It is going to be part of experience and love lesson to you. Good luck!

I want to date her by all means

Lovelines,

I am married for about two years but I still date many ladies outside. Of recent, I am interested in a lady that we shares office building together. I want to date her by all means. But any relationship that I am in to I always let those ladies know that I am married. Still they seem not to worry. Please advice.

Lamin

If you will really listen to my advice you are a married man you need to respect yourself and your marriage. Both Christianity and Islam do not allow or encouraged adultery. What you are involved in that you think is a fun is nothing but vanity and sin. Remember of the different STDs. So instead of keeping chain of lovers since you are Muslim and Islam permits up to 4 wives if you can fulfill or meet the conditions guiding it. Marry another one. Please forget about dating her by ‘all means’ and re-plan your life and how you will build a good and responsible home. Gambian girls will never object to your dating them because you are married so far you are ready to shoot out for them. What is sweet is always kill. Good luck!

She is not faithful to me

Lovelines,

I am 23—year-old in love with a girl. This girl is not faithful to me, she is dating another man who is older and richer than I. My friends told me that her love for me is nothing but vanity, because I cannot match with the other guy. I want to know if she loves me. 

Bakary

Faith they said ‘if you build it, it will come.’ So you are the one to start building the relationship. That she has another boyfriend does not mean that she does not love you. At the same time it will be termed that she does not because she is rotating between two men. Secondly since your rival is richer and able to meet her demands, so tell her to choose between you and him. If she preferred him to you, kiss her goodbye and browse for another one. Good luck!

Give my profile to ladies

Lovelines,

I am looking for any good girl who would love me. Please give my profile to any lady that is interested in me.

Kurang

The females reader are reading they will call you through Lovelines should anyone is interested. But remember to forward your full name, occupation. Good luck!

Need a true lover

Lovelines,

I need a true lover in my life please tell me what I have to do.

Badara

Before you talk about true love, are you faithful, caring, strong, tolerate, endure, swift, prudent, long-suffering and manly because the aim of a superior man is truth. So be truthful to yourself you will find true love. Good luck!

She is forcing herself on me

Please help me out of this partner problem. I already have a lady that I seeded for marriage, but there is another girl who refused to let me be and said unless she marries me. I told her already that I has chosen and promised a lady that I wanted to marry. Yet she bends on marrying me.

Sam

This is not a big deal. So far you never wanted or promised her in your life. Stay away from her let her know that you hate marrying her with passion. Never you give her audience any more than hi, hi. The decision is yours because you can only take the horse to the river impossibility to force it drink water. You know what I mean. Good luck!

She keep saying she have a date

Lovelines,

You have to be congratulating for this your Lovelines site. Kindly enlighten me on this, there is a girl whom I am interested in dating, I have read my love application to her hearing many times still she keep telling me she having a date.  So what advice do you have for me?

Karamo

Thanks for patting Lovelines behind. According to Plato ‘love is the joy of the good, the wonder of the wise, and the amazement of the gods.’ So give her chance and try to know if it is true she is in love with someone she is dating. If she truly love the guy put no asunder but if she did not press more buttons. If you don’t understand the system do not hesitate to call Lovelines. Good luck!