Last week I received about four mails, which are of similar issues. I will not be able to address each separately on this column because of space constraints and there similarities, but those concerns can check their email boxes for answers.  So lets take it this way since they are all based on marriages and funs.

A lot of people don’t associate sex with God; they only associate it with Satan and said it is sinful, as if sex weren’t holy. I am very sure that if we all cross check our holy books very well it is explicit when it comes to sex. It is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style or time for it for the couples. So not discussing sex in a relationship sometime leads to divorce. You want to know what I mean, read on.

I have in many times seen and talked to women who’ve complained that: "My husband treats me as if I were his brother."  When some will say this then another will have said  "I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a people receiving wages."  That is they are getting it regularly from their spouses. What will you tell those? She is lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, since some wives or husband only get it on big days; that is their husbands or wives are not frequent in their room or not together because of many wives or concubines outside.

Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures somewhere else-in brothel or some hideout. In some circumstances women themselves cause this. Have you ever asked yourself what those wives or ladies have that you don’t? It is when you are able to figure it out that you will overcome it and become most needed wife on bed. Okay, do you know that some wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties with their husbands on same bed?  Let us  be opened for the sake of maturity, if you’re a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband, but not like a phantom and the baby on the bed.

Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a woman’s sacred part. They browse through all the girls on the street that wear check-down and transparent shimmies. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie shops not to buy but hoping to see what’s hidden under panties, because their wives are hiding it from them not only in the room but on their matrimonial bed. Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband at home in that case her husband mind will always be with her.

There’re many married women who don’t know what their husbands’ manhood look like. They only feel it ... They’ve never … it, let alone see it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing. This supposes to be a woman’s toy as a wife – she is supposed to play with it.

But shall we blame only women for this, the answer is no because some men are like snail because immediately you touch them they fold up. Some will not go to bed until their wives are sleeping. Even at the hour couples suppose to fight for blanket on the bed it is that time some men will enter the house from the club. Possibly another woman might have exhausted him from outside. This will surely rendered such man useless and lazy before his wife who has been lying down with full emotion that will later turn to frustration on the bed.

You find many couples, which has been sexually starved for years "I am very tired today," while some, will say, "I am having a waist problem because I have been working, driving or sitting throughout the day."  Some couples either man or woman is bold enough to say, "it is not a food."

Who cares and who said it is a food? Stop complaining of tiredness. God has created sex for procreation and also for pleasure. If you marry you must have good time on bed so that you don’t rock your marriage.  Some will even say this is afternoon or not yet night, who said you can only have sex at night? Why can’t you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We have all just equal in sex – it’s not just about a woman satisfying a man.

You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have you noticed how she glows and becomes energetic? And what about a man that has been satisfied? He will always happy and feel comfortable, fulfill and harmless!

NB: Bandit Lovers; Hit and Run. As the year will finally rest on Monday; some water of love has eroded pass through under the bridge mostly in this festive period. There are lot of hit and run lovers! To know more on what it is all about, book your copy of Weekend Observer with your vendor: Answer to the received letters will be published in next edition. Good luck and Happy New Year to you all in advance.

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