Lovelines

Few years ago, I was dating a man that I was from the same village with before he traveled to Europe. This relationship lasted for a couple of years. He made a promise that he will marry me immediately if he settles down.

After two years of his resident in Europe, he stopped calling me for six weeks. He later called me one day and said to me that if I find another man who is ready to marry me, I should not hesitate to marry him because he does not want to waste my time, since he has not settled down still. I accepted this with good faith.

However, I got a reliable information that he has found another woman he wanted to marry. He broke my heart because for a very long time, I could not stop thinking about the past between us. It is just now that I made up my mind.

After some thoughts and considerations, I found a serious, self-promised, disciplined and honest man who has been waiting and asking me to marry him. I love him, but still gave myself some time to get off from my first love experience.

Now my ex, who broke my heart by marrying someone abroad, started calling me in the past two months because he wanted to come home in March. He said he wanted to marry me because his decision to marry his European concubine failed woefully due to some circumstances despite a series of attempts. However, I do not want to marry him anymore. What do you think?

Flaky

Congratulations for being able to secure a romantic and lovely man you think is better to marry after the heart broken courtesy of your ex-lover’s decision. So follow your heart. You know who the best among them is.

Your ex, who is now calling for a return match since he could not get a good fixture in the field of play is suppose to know one thing; that when two lovers are under the influence of the most violent, insane, delusive and transient of passions, they are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal and exhausting condition continuously until death separates them apart. That is since you didn’t complain in his first two-years of stay in Europe, he should not have told you to get another person if truly he loved you and wanted to marry you.

But his U-turn is too late because you already have another man in your heart. And how will you know that his calls are not a fallacy since he may like to go out with someone when he returns. So if you don’t want to become a non-maintenance baby factory, be careful of falling a victim to his sweet words because once beaten is twice shy. Tell him that you have found a new love and wish him good luck.  And let him be serious the next time he starts subscribing for a partner. Good luck!