Lovelines

I am a girl of 19 dating a 22-year-old guy. We have being in love for the past 2-years, but he always says that he loves me, but does not trust me. What can I do to make him trust me?

Abigail

It is not a new thing for a man not to trust his woman although you did not state how he did not trust you.

Your lover is following the Shakespearean saying that "Love all, (but) trust a few." Did you give him room to trust you or to doubt you? And do you also trust him, because according to Ralph W Emerson "Trust men and they will be true to you."

Therefore, what you need to do if you want him to trust you is to be truthful and trustworthy to yourself. If you are sure of this, then ask him what he thinks trust is especially between the two of you. His answers will let you know how you will make him to trust you. Mind you, search through yourself to know if there is any skeleton in your cupboard. If you don’t understand this; never hesitate to ask more questions to Lovelines. Good luck!