Lovelines,

I am a girl of 22. I have a boyfriend that I love so much and he too love me but the problem is that he is not working and he always ask for money from me and wanted me to do everything for him. This makes me scare of him often and now I don’t know what to do.

Njila,

Anyway you do not specified in your text what you are doing for a living and why your boyfriend is not working and his age. What I can let you know is that there is nothing bad in doing something for your boyfriend but with the condition that such boyfriend is not a lazy guy but serious, honest, discipline and open minded.

At the same time any man who does not work but love her partner does not need to ask before the partner does for him. Man that always demand from a woman because he is not working will gradually turn to a dependant, liability, unserious and give his right to a woman. At the end a man of that character always lost in everything.

What you should do is to advice him to look for a job or learn a handiwork that can sustain him and his family in future. However, if you are not buoyant enough tell him and ask him where he wanted you to get money the money from unless he wants you to become a high street babe because any day you could not meet his demand he will start to doubt you. Good luck!