I am having sex with my husband but no feeling

Lovelines

Ever since I got married to my husband we do have sex but I don’t have feeling. Moreover my husband is dating different girls outside.

Lala

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I am not an orthodox doctor but I think there are some symptoms that might be responsible for this if we are to look into it medically. If you can call me I will be able to ask you one, two or three questions in which if you are able to provide answer, I can say what could be the actual cause of your not have feeling. However, your not having feeling during sex with your husband might be part of what drives your husband to the arms of other girls outside.

Sexual activities require feelings from both partners. That is the only way you will both enjoy it and reach climax because it is a give and take action. But explain your experience to him and tell him to be careful STDs knows nobody. Call for more explanation. However, I will advice you to see a gynecologist or medical practitioner at the hospital. Good luck!

I sacrifice for him …he is not faithful to me

Lovelines

I have been dating a man for over one year, I actually love him with all my heart but he is not serious. He always lie to me any time I ask him if he is dating another gal. Each time, I always see love text on his phone which is sent by other gals. Just in the name of love, I sacrifice everything I have to make him happy, still he is not faithful to me. What can I do?

Bintou

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It is a matter of choice and love all you need to do is to decide if you want to remain in the relation or you want to quit for good if your guy refuse to limit the size of babes he is dating or concentrate on you.

At the same time, have you ever had a heart to heart discussion with him to know what those ladies outside offers him that you never give? Doing everything to make a relation work and strong without knowing the main solution is like pouring water into a basket. So there are two options for you, which is either to call and tell him your mind that you are not happy with the numerous girls he is dating- in order to avoid STDs. Second option is for you to kiss him goodbye and show him the door to get out of your life since he does not want to change - to avoid your daily stress and sadness.  Good luck!

I was forced to marry her

Lovelines

I was forced to marry a girl (my wife). I tried everything to love her but I could not because I am in love with another girl that I have promised three years ago. In spite of this forced marriage, still my mind is always with this cherish lovely but my unmarried girlfriend who still love me. I do not know what to do.

Ngange

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Hence you have accepted to the forced marriage, what you need to do is to build the love so that their will be peace and harmony between you and your wife. Since you still love your promised girlfriend the only alternative left for you is to marry her and become a husband to two wives. As a man you need to stand on your words no matter how they control you, remember they can only control you but not your mind. So beg your promised girlfriend to forgive and forget it is not by your doing but those that force you into it and tell her that you should remain as a good friend. Good luck!

His family does not like me

Lovelines

I am so deeply in love with a man who loves and cares for me more than words could define …He wishes so much that we spend the rest of our lives together but his family doesn’t like me.  He tries as much as possible to convince me that his family is happy about our relationship but I know they are not. I don’t want to betray his love for me because it can make both of us go mad. Still I am afraid his family might influence him against me in future. Lovelines, I am afraid to move into a family that doesn’t want to be my in-laws. I don’t know what to do because I don’t think either of us can live our lives without each other.   

Tonia

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How long this relationship is, I don’t know, but you have to belief in your sweet heart. Be patience, polite, kind, confidence and prayerful with a lot of tolerance and endurance if you want to have your way into their hearts. Try as much as possible to bring yourself down to their level; do not tell me that in a whole family of this man no one is in good time with you. And if there is none you should forget the relation for good but if there is, get closer to that person and through him/her you will be able to penetrate into their hearts. For guidelines make a call to Lovelines. Good luck!

I love her since I was 17-year-old

Lovelines

I am 23; I have been dating a girl since I was 17. We love each other and we engage in about 95% of love activities.  But what baffles me is that she never opens her gateway for me to pass through to her Jerusalem despite our sensuality. I want to share my affection with her. She knows this and she always feel angry about it. She does refuse because she is still at home and want me to wait till we get marry.  But I discussed marriage with her she accepted and said she is not ready as at now. She claimed to love me but I do not trust her.

Nasir

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Anyway love and sex her not separable in a good relation, but sometime we have to abstain from it for the time being and sake of understanding. If you are able to clock 95% of love activities with someone you love it is probably enough for you to be satisfied and also enough for your girlfriend to consider you as a good lover that respect love and open. So if you have been able to stay with her for good six years without sexual intercourse, it is enough for you to endure more till she is ready since you love her. If you coax her well she might probably give you a chance but if she does not and you feel not able to condole it any more tell her your mind because your body is full. So if she accepted for you to have another girlfriend whom you will use to cool your temper, good, and if she say no follow your heart because you can not force her against her will. Good luck!  

He keeps telling me to concentrate on my studies!

Lovelines

I am in love with a man. Initially I have told him what I have in my mind. But he keeps on telling me to concentrate on my studies. Already I am a graduate. I am tired and confused because I don’t know what to do. I love him.

Maimuna

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Since you are a graduate find yourself a job and if you have one make him understand that you are a degree holder and you can go for your post graduate course after marriage. That is if both of you have discussed up to marriage level. But one thing you have to know is that he might not ready for marriage now at the same time you might have been living in world of illusion with him since, I will not digress on this here. So take it cool and explain to him in such a way both of you will understand each other. If he still adamant to your explanation ready for marriage, then think of either to wait for him till he will say yes or get down with someone that is ready. Good luck!

His neighbor hijacks him from me

Lovelines

I am a young gal of 27 dating a guy for 2 years now. We were overly in love until the affection dice rolled away from my side to a lady staying in my lover’s compound.  He told me to stay away from his house because he was in love with this lady in his compound. Now I do not know what went wrong between them he want us to continue the relationship again. Can I continue with him?

Haja

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Love is something that you can not manufacture but you can develop and nurture it. Since you love him and you are ready to swallow the humiliation you receive from him when he told you to stay away at the same time the embarrassment that you might probably encounter with the lady in his compound later on, then continue. But if you are not ready for any of the two (humiliation and embarrassment) kiss him goodbye he is not a responsible guy. In future if you both marry you should know better that he can still do same thing. Remember leopard can’t change its spot. Okay, if you still not understand this make a call to Lovelines. Good luck!

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