Lovelines: She flirts around with my friend

Friday, August 29, 2008
Itake the bull by the horns

Lovelines
There is a lady that I am attracted to because I could not resist my feeling towards her. I took the bull by the horns and told her how much I cherish and appreciate her. She agreed to my heart feelings for her. I call, text and visit her regularly but she never bothers to turn up or reciprocate my gestures. I am in doubt as to whether she loves me. This has made me to pay less attention to her.

Pa Sanneh

If you notice that someone you love is not showing any love, concern or affection towards you, it is better you let the person go. Trying to make someone love you when the person has no feeling for you is like peeling corn at the back of a calabash. So leap forward, your lover might be somewhere around the corner waiting to hear from you. If she loves you, she will come after you when she notices that you have woken up from your slumber. Good luck!
 
She flirts around with my friend

Lovelines
I am seriously not happy with my girlfriend’s attitude towards my friend. She is flirting with my friend. I kept cool and tried to observe what was going on and finally realized that my girlfriend wants my friend because he is financially stronger than I am. I have parted company with this girl but I am still staying with my friend. I still stand the chance to get her back if I want. I love her so much!
Andy

You are like a man who is keeping fast but cannot take his eyes and mind away from food. Although it is generally believed that love is blind. Sometimes blind lovers do regain their sight. You have to regain your sight and face a good direction if you do not want to fall into the trap of woman. If you don’t want to break the cord of friendship, it is better you keep away from this girl and browse for another disciplined, reliable and responsible lady who will love, take care of and accept you for who you are. Think about promiscuity. Good luck!

I can’t compare her with another girl
I told her to keep it secret


Lovelines
I love her so much that I could not compare her with any other girl. I do everything to make her happy and feel comfortable with me while she promised me her heart in return. We always have problems in spite of all her promises due to jealousy which makes her treat me shabbily sometimes. I am also dating her best friend, whom I met before I got attracted to her three to four months ago. I let her know about the relationship between her friend and I. But I told her to keep ours a secret between her and I. She confessed that she had secretly admired me before and promised to let the relationship be a secret one. Both of them always visit me in unison, just like twin sisters. I love them but right now I don’t know what to do.

Dampha

This is your harbinger. It can lead you to good and bad shores. You should accept that you are an unintelligent Casanova. Playing double games with your girlfriend’s best friend is a recipe for heartbreak. You said they visit you together, how do you know that your secret still remains a secret. I do not want to dilate more on this but I will like you to evaluate everything yourself and put yourself in their shoes. Then make a call or text Lovelines with your observation. Your girlfriend’s deliberate acts are meant to annoy you and such acts in love are part of emotional blackmail since there is a secret between you. I await your call on your observation. Remember, love in a high-risk place is dangerous. It always ends in vain. Good luck!

I want to call her a pet name

Lovelines
I am a just married man. I don’t know the pet name that I should call my wife. Can Lovelines help me?

Ray

There are many pet names that you can give to your partner. It depends on the love you have for each other, feelings, and how important you are to each other. Among pet names for you to choose from are sweetheart, darling, my baby, dear, precious, my love, love of my heart, honey, gift, happy, queen, egg-of-life, and many more. Sometime you name your babe because of her appearance, smile, voice, intelligence, honesty and so on. So observe her and think of a beautiful pet name for her. Good luck!

Author: by Yunus S. Saliu