Agony corner

Thursday, January 22, 2009
I don’t know what to do

Lovelines
I am 21 dating a man of 26. This man wants to marry me but my parents don’t want him because we are of different religions. I surely love him and I don’t want him to go.

Jainaba

Well, you have to reach an agreement with the love of your heart about the religion both of you should belong to. All the same, the final answer remains with you. When you have checked the circumstances and what you really want for yourself, you will be able to decide.

Meaning, you have the right to say yes or no because you are the one that is going for marriage and not your parents. It is your life, no one will live it for you. But whatever decision you take be careful and take your time. Good luck!

She came back

Lovelines
I dated my ex girlfriend for 3 years before she was impregnated by one guy. Now she has come back for us to continue our relationship. I want your help.

Lansanna
There is no special advice that you need that is more than your choice. You had chosen to accept her back according to your text. The most matter thing is the love you have for each other.  

Hence you had accepted her back try to know why you did that. But if you haven’t accepted her back, think carefully to determine if you truly love her and have no grudges concerning what had happened in the past. If  you are able to do this, go ahead. But I know many who will not accept such an idea. Don’t mind them. Good luck!

Someone to love

Lovelines
I am a single guy of 28.  I need a lady who would love me. I am neither rich nor poor.

Manjang

Manjang is waiting to meet love of his life. Should you find him appealing, call Lovelines for more information.

Caught

Lovelines
My girlfriend who promised to marry me was dating another man in my absence after we had dated for 2 years. Perhaps the dating started within a two-month period when I travelled. When I came back, I caught them together and advised her. She apologised but did not let the boy go.

I left her for some months and the boy impregnated her. I got married to another girl. But I still love her than my wife. She has regretted her past actions because she still loves me. She visits me - though pregnant - in the absence of my wife. I still really love her too. I don’t know what to do.

Khan

You sound like a confused man who does not know what he wants. Since you have forgotten about her and taken another girl for marriage probably because of her dating, let her go. You should stop claiming ‘love’. There is no tolerance, understanding, respect and contentment but contempt between the two of you.

Allowing your ex to visit you in your matrimonial house while she is carrying another man’s baby is nothing good but will bring calamity in the future and is a sin before God. If you both love each other there wouldn’t be any cheating, short or long separation. Love doesn’t fight, quarrel, hate, separate or give conditions.

I suggest you distant yourself from her if you want a good and happy family. She is not yours, if she was, nothing would have come between you. Two years is enough to build a good relationship. Do not think that your wife will not know about what you are doing in secret, remember the ‘wall has ears.’ Good luck!

My ex wants to marry me

Lovelines
My ex boyfriend who recently came from Europe wants to marry me. But my present boyfriend stays in the same country with my ex. My problem is that each time I talk to my boyfriend about marriage he always says: “I am not yet ready.” But I am seriously falling for my ex who wanted to marry me.

Isatou

Remember all that glisters is not gold. Before you think of getting married to any of these two guys, think about love, understanding and the respect you both have for each other. What were the circumstances that brought separation between you and your ex? Think about how serious he is and if you can really withstand ‘love across the ocean’ affair.

Now find out the reason why your present boyfriend is not ready to marry yet. How genuine are the reasons he gives you. Okay, think about yourself, what you do for a living and if you are ready for this marriage.

Are you after the two guys because you want to be a wife to a semester like other women? What are the plans you have for yourself now and after the marriage? Better still if you think your ex meets all your expectation and you are really sure he is for real; you can have back your cake since your boyfriend is not ready. But think about this and answer the questions. You can call me for more information. Good luck!

I love her so much

Lovelines
There is a girl I love more than any other girl. I expressed my feeling for her but she said she is dating someone else. What should I do?

Bakary

You can make her your friend. One day the arrow of your love can strike her heart. Since she loves her boyfriend, it might still be difficult for you to break her defence. Presently she is satisfied with her guy. It is better that she told you the truth rather than try to fake you. So wait for your turn. Good luck!
I can’t find a serious boyfriend

Lovelines
I am a young lady, but I can’t find a serious boyfriend in my life. I am respected in the society so I don’t want my name to be tarnished. Each man who comes across my way only wants to have nice time with me. I am against this because I want to maintain my chastity until I am married. I want a pious and caring husband. I don’t want a friendship that will lead me into a temptation. I respect my religion.

BabT

I admire your boldness and policy.
Are you a caring, discipline and religious guy? Open your heart if you are one and get in touch with Lovelines. Good luck!

Romantic texts

ModouLamin,
You are the love of my heart. I love the shape and color of your eyes. I love the noble look of your nose in profile. I love the texture of your beard and the sound of your voice.

I love the muscles and the hairs on your chest. Sometimes when you are wearing shorts, I admire your calves. I love the way you just sit and look at me, which makes me wonder if I truly deserve you. I love the way you wrap me up in your arms as we fall asleep and when we’re waking up.

I love the way you lift my spirit when I'm brought down by the stress of this world. I love how you always think deeply and faithfully of me. I love how you are always on guard to protect our relationship, how you protect me, stand up for the truth and give people the benefit of the doubt. I love how generous you are with your time, money and talents. Oh God you have the best lips, the best kiss ever!

I love how you studied me and know me better than I know myself. With you, I am not merely safe; not just respected; but you make me feel so tall and proud. I'm everything I’m because you love me. You cultivate me. You are my prince charming and my knight in shining armor.

In turn, I respect you more every day, I want to delight you, to lift you up and unfetter you to be whatever Allah calls you to be and do. I love you my prince.

Jarra


Yous-Love
I would like to serve you a special lunch in the hotel of my heart with a bowl of love so I have a spoon of care in my happy arms. My heart is the dish of friendship. I want you to pay the bill by missing me.

F-Yous


Gatuso
I love you because you are wonderful and smart. I love you because you are handsome. I love you because you make me laugh with your great personality. I love you because you let me be who I am. I love you because you are unique and know how to keep me safe. There is no one in the world like you. This knowledge makes me love you more. You are my heart.

Liyah


Abukapapa Paul Steven
Don’t you see the birds flying in the sky singing sweet songs, the flowers dancing, the moon smiling and the stars overcome with joy, all because you are someone special.

Marie Louise

Sabel
Every breath you take, every move you make, every bond you break, and every step you take I will watch you. Oh! Darling can’t you see you belong to me? How my poor heart aches with every step you take. I had a dream last night and the only face I could see was yours.  I keep crying babe, babe please give me a chance.

Yego

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