Shocker, I caught my best friend  in bed with my wife!

Lovelines
I do not know what to do. I love my wife very much but she betrayed my love for her. I have been hearing rumours that she is having affairs with my friend but. One day, I confronted her  for  this allegation but she denied it. She told my friend about my confronting her. To my dismay, my friend too confronted with bitter insults to an extent that we fought. He broke my right arm during the fight. My wife said nothing than "this is good for you." I made peace with her because I love her. Since then, it was over between my friend and me.

One day, a young girl that I take like a sister informed me that my friend does come to the house in my absence to visit my wife. I found it difficult to believe. A shocker, I caught my friend in bed with my wife. This a day  I don’t like to remember and talk about in my life. However, we separated since then. For over one month now she has been sending emissaries to me that it is the handwork of the devil and that she wants to come back. I would like to take her back for the sake of love but I need your advice.
Jome

I have to be sincere with you my friend, I hate to hear some men talk about love when they don’t actually understand the meaning of love. You amused me when you think about taking your wife back after the abominable act she committed with your best friend, who was at the verge of killing you because of sleeping with your wife. Bear it in mind that the moment you accept her back, that is the moment your obituary will be announced.

So you better prepare and inform your family that you are going to enrol in a death course, which you will end at the will of your sweet heart. Despite the fact that the Holy Books said "what God has joined together let no man put asunder," your wife doesn’t deserve any mercy from you. I would say forgive her but taking her back is a risk. Have you ever seen a retired prostitute? They only go for a leave. One thing for sure as a believer, please forgive them and avoid them like a thorn in the bush. A word is enough for the wise. Good luck!  

Lovelines
I am in love with my co-worker, who recently confessed to me that she’s also dating a very close friend who is also working in the same office in Basse. According to her, she quarrelled with the guy (my friend) because of the interest she has in me. Now that I know she is or in the past dated my friend and broke the relationship because of me, should I end it with her? But one thing I really love her.
Fakeba

According to Karl Bath ‘conscience is the perfect interpreter of life.’ Since you really love her, I know it will be difficult for you to forego her, which means you have to follow your conscience. Since within her conscience she confessed to you what she supposed to have hidden in her heart, it is another way of telling you how deeply she loves you.

I can’t say in particular who she started dating first between two of you, but she needs to look into how she fall in love. Dating two men in the same office can result into fracas between co-workers. Moreover, any day she found another man attracted to her in that office she might quarrel with you as well and switch on. So it will become tit for tat. Good luck!

Lovelines
I am 19 and partially deaf. I was not born deaf but my deafness is as a result of a serious headache that attacked me when I was 12. Now I am in a higher institution and as well, working with one of the financial institutions. Most people do not notice that in me. I have been with my partner since 2 years but he doesn’t know. I know he loves me a lot and I want to tell him but I am afraid of losing him. Will he still love me if I tell him? What about if he finds out on his own?
Mercy

This is nothing to fear about. Remember Aeschylus said "when a match has equal partners, I fear not." If he really loves you, you will not lose him so fear not. Do not think that he did not notice that sometimes you can’t hear very well. You might not know that he noticed it.But he will not assume it to be partial deaf because it is something common that some people that are not deaf can still not hear very well.

What you can do is to ask him if he ever noticed in you that you are having hearing problem. Explain how it happened and how you felt then. It will be very difficult for people to believe that you are partially deaf hence you make phone calls, you attend lectures in the classroom and having conversation with friends and other acquaintances. Even if he gets to know prove to him that you are not deaf. To be a deaf is to be born deaf or inability to hear anything at all. So if you wish to tell him that’s not a problem. And if you let him ask you it is still not a problem what matters most is the love and affection that he has for you. Good luck!

Lovelines
I love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too. But we broke up because he hated my attitude. I still want him back. What should I do?
Fatim

Hence you have realised that your behaviour is your problem, it is an opportunity for you to turn over a new leaf. Call him and let him know that you have discovered your mistake and you will be happy if he can give you a second chance to prove yourself and the love you have for him. Let him know that you are now a new Fatim, who he first met sometime back. Remember if the king loves music there is little on the ground to talk about. Good luck!

Lovelines
I am confused because it is 10 months now since I heard from my girlfriend, who had promised me endless love. I helped her a lot during her education. This has made me confused.  
Sanneh

You did not sound like a serious partner. If you do not hear from your girlfriend it is important that you call or visit her in her house. If it is true that she is your girlfriend, you will not be able to wait till 10 months without searching for her. Is it love you are now crying about or the help you have rendered to her during her education. Search your mind and say the truth. If both of you are in love you will definitely hear from each other. Do not mix infatuation with deep love because ‘man’s love is of man’s life …’ Good luck!

Lovelines
I have asked two women that I know for outing but they rejected me. I do not know if this has anything to do with my looks. One of them hasn’t talked to me for 1 year. Now I am in love with someone I don’t know well.  How can I make her to like me?
Salim

Well it is very impossible for me to judge how you look like because I have not met you before. But I want you to know that no matter how one looks like, there is always a partner that you will match with. Wether you are ugly or handsome what matters most is your appearance. Appear neat; gentle and responsible, you will see a woman liking you for who you are.

Some beautiful women prefer dating ugly men because they know that such men will respect them and will have no gut to look at other women. So do not write off yourself. More so, it is you who will move closer to the new girl you said you do not know very well. Visit her, observe and ask her whatever you want to know about her, since you are both in love. As  Rome was not built in a day, so you can know her one day. Good luck!

Lovelines
Some months back I broke up with my ex boyfriend after 3 years dating. I still love him but I don’t know how I can get back to him. Besides I don’t want to tell him that "I still love you” (him). Right now I am dating someone else, what should I do?
Tabara

You amused me. If you still love him swallow your pride. Pick your phone and call him tonight ask about his feeling and what he is doing. Since you do not want to tell him that you still love him, talk to him in a romantic way that will make him ask you what he has done to you that closed the distance between you and him. You have to know that one word frees us of all the weight and pain of life and that word is "love."  

So attention is the most basic form of love; through it we bless and are blessed. Therefore we love because it's the only true adventure. That’s why love experts said "love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away." So stop suffering in silent. Good luck!



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