Lately many people have become love mugu (fool); they ran into the hands of brigands all in the name of seeking for succour.

Can we shift the blame that men and women fell mugu due to emergency love? Not really. But what of their ‘longer-throat,’ luxury, dressing competition, jealousy, and satisfaction/enjoyment or is it temptation? I do not want to believe all that.

Many become victims of hit and run love mostly during the Tobaski, and New Year celebrations in the hands of semesters, holiday makers and tourists as many of them are always in town to cajole young girls, women, even boys and some young men. The homiest will never think twice, but it is an awaited opportunity to some and the results are always at the reverse side.

Let us express the equation. During the feast some people have nothing to do with attraction and feeling, but with interest. Interest about what? About what to gain from their partner and whoever that looks for freebies must surely look out in vain.

Because of this selfish inquest, they always have empty promises that make them abandon their lovers and fall prey to the just arrived semesters who need someone to cover them from the extended hands of cold.

Some others fall in the den of tourists who need youthful hands to fresh their blood and massage their stiff bodies. What they probably get in return are empty promises, a plate of chicken and chips, 2-3 bottles of soft drinks, meagre money that can only buy wanterr goods in the market.


Money power

The power of money, when it comes to dating can be very strong. Although it is easy for both men/women to say "I do not love you because of money." Many scold their lovers when they are not able to squeeze out money from their sweet hearts to spend or buy the latest.

As a result many switch to follow the semesters that will promise them heaven on earth. They are scolds and are ready to do anything to get money. Most of those affairs always turn into a hit and run game. Count your blessings and give thanks to God. But all some people have goes in vain because of their lack of steadfastness with their partner.

A lady wires Lovelines and says "…I abandoned him four weeks before Tobaski for a semester that I met at Kololi. He discussed with me at lengthy and promised to marry me. I was very happy and I tried to satisfy him. On Christmas Eve, I met him packing his bag I asked him what’s-up? He answered "I ought to spend Xmas with my wife…" He was laughing and I thought it was a joke. In the end, he gave me his mobile. He finally left that night…"

Without mincing his words, she is a victim of a hit and run game who has been living on empty promises in the hands of a pretending lover.

Hit and run

There is no enemy at the corner that is blocking you from getting married to your choice, except greediness and being thirsty for what is between the thighs of the opposite sex. Men are now in love with faces, while women love the volume and depth of men’s wallets. Giving and accepting fake love for the sake of materials and social life is not enjoyment, but sorrow.

When it comes to reality and physical feelings, love is swift, sincere, pious, pleasant, generous, strong, patient, faithful, prudent, long-suffering, and never seeking your own, for where ever a man seeks his own, there is where he falls in love. Many youths or even married couple; single parent widows and widowers are sometimes victims. They will not only hit you, but they will certainly shave your head and paint it with the colour of your choice before disappearing into thin air.

Lovers love bandit

Some women always have their hearts broken because they are cheated on or find themselves giving everything they have in their hearts to get something from men, but many a times nothing returns in.

You know what I mean! Can you ask yourself, if the semester or new guy you abandoned for your old lover is worth it or fulfils his promise after cutting your cake? And as a man, were you able to break her defence despite spending your last bututs that should have better used to settle your NAWEC bill at home on that temptation lady?

Many of this men/women might actually have better to offer each other. But because of the base of the love, they turn out to be hit and run lovers or love bandits. Home based guy in terms of relation will remain with the woman he loves and who tells him that she loves, trusts, and has companionship and passion.

While the semester guy will stand on friendship, give me what I want and I will give you what you want just because they know what these ladies want. Why is this happening? It is because women don’t develop a connection in the right place when it comes to social life-luxury.