Lovelines

I am 25 dating a young man of 29 for the past three years. I love him much that in anything that I am doing, I always put him first. I was surprised to see him dating my best friend who is two years older than me. Right now he has succeeded in impregnated her. What do I do now?   

Halima

You have to know that we live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality. So what is reality? “It is a staircase going neither up nor down; we don’t move, today is today, always is today,” said by Octavio Paz. All I want you to know is that for good three years you had been living in world of illusion with people you think that they love you-your friend and your sweet man friend.

There is nothing to worry about since it has become a reality that she is pregnant for him you have to leave both of them to get marry to each other while you look for another good guy that will be yours. But if you are ready to share him and be in rival tangle, the choice is yours. But it is better now than in future. Good luck!


I am not a lucky lady

Lovelines

I am not a lucky lady. I have dated three men but not at the same time. There is nothing I can get from these three men or that they are ready to do for me because they are not caring. Even if I have any program to attend especially the man I am dating presently. At my age, 25, I need to be love and care for. What do I do because I don’t like to beg a man because I never did that in my life and I don’t want to do it?

Jenny

For sure you might not be fortune to see a man that will take care of you as expected, but it does not mean that you are not lucky. Therefore luck is not chance, it is toil. According to Juvenal he said “a lucky man is rarer than a white cow,” the same applicable to a woman – a lucky woman is also rarer than a white cow.

So what you need to do is to hold tight whatever you are doing (work or study) when it is time you will surely get a man that will care, cherish, respect and love you. So you should know that chance favors the prepared mind. If you do not understand this, never hesitate to call Lovelines. Good luck!

Conditional love

Lovelines

I am a boy of 23 dating a girl I love so much. She recently gave me a condition that I can not meet. She wants me to stop smoking or we call off the relation. Meanwhile, before we met she was dating a smoker like me. Now I can’t understand this condition on me.

Kutubo

If she surely give you this condition which she never give her ex who was a smoker like you, that means she really want to be with you. What you now need is to make up your mind of how you can quit smoking and learn to love each other. It is your choice and her. All the same she too need to bear with you till you are able to quit smoking bank since it is an habit that need time to overcome. Good luck!

Too hard to keep in my heart

Lovelines

It is too hard to keep in my heart but is sure if I speak out I might probably get out of it. I am 19 years gal dating a man at 22, all he wants is that I should love him alone, but am not the only one he is dating.

As usual we were chatting on the phone on a Sunday’s afternoon when a girl sent a text to warning me to leave her boyfriend alone. I can’t leave the boy; I love him as much as he loves me. I asked him about the girl but all he told me was that the girl is having something on him that is why they are together because he doesn’t love her. I don’t believe him. His family stresses him over this issue but to no avail. What should I do, should I give up for the other girl, or allow him in my life again because I still love him?

Zarah

You have the right to make a choice at the same time you have the eyes to see the handwritten on the wall. No matter how you do I do not think you can capture his heart. So forget saying he love you and open a new page from the book of love for someone that know how to read the book. So open your eyes and make a choice. Good luck!

Elderly person for friendship

Lovelines

I am a single man closer to 40. I need a caring, friendly, honest elderly woman that will take me for who I am as a friend. Do you think I can get one for myself? I believe in friendship a lot.

Syl

Aunties, mummies and sisters, here is a guy that wish to meet any good looking elderly person as a friend. If you are interested send a text/call or email Lovelines. Good luck!
 
She reconciles with her ex

Lovelines

My girlfriend puts me in a hot soup because she reconciles with her ex lover. But I tried to stop my relation with her but she refused and keeps on calls and tells me cock and bull stories just to continue. Coincidentally, if my rival and I meet together in her presence she will not talk to me, rather she will pretend as if there is nothing between her and me. Can you tell me what to do?

Billy

There is no big deal on this issue; it is just that she still love her ex more than you. What you need is determination. If you really don’t want to continue the relationship hence she has reconcile with her ex, make up your mind and tell her plainly that it is over but you can both remain as mere friend. But if she want it to continue that is if you still love her then let her choose between you and your rival (her ex but reconcile), in order to avoid rivalry, jealousy and hatred. Good luck!

A rich man is about to ruin my love

Lovelines

I have been dating a girl for 8 years. We are planning to marry but a so called rich man is trying to take her out. He does send her credit (scratch) cards and call her regularly. He is very rich more than me, what shall I do?  


Mbye

I really sure that one of you is not ready for what you have been planning for 8 years. Though I do not know the age of you two, but I believe that 8 years love should by now take a final decision if truly you wish to get marry. Delayed is dangerous. So I will advise you to take heart and forget about her if she eventually goes for a rich man. Probably she might want a change or tired of your love, mostly if she realize that it is illusion. As the say goes ‘money is not everything,’ but without money nothing can be done. Good luck!

I do not want to see him stress himself

Lovelines

I am 19, but when I was in grade 11 I got pregnant for my boyfriend who is 22 now.  Before, he was working at the same time undergoing a part time course. I went back to school after the safety delivered of our son.

When he stopped working I was taking care of the family. I dearly love him that I do not want him to stress himself while I always think of him whenever I am alone most of the time. We seldom quarrel but get over it.

He promises to marry me when he gets a good job. Now that our son is one and half year, I am trying to see that he travels abroad for further studies. The major palaver I am having with him is that he is jealous when ever I go out, receive calls in his presence and also if he browse my text messages although there is no implicative text because I do not involve in such affairs. With his style of jealous I do not know if she is meant for me or will our marriage last forever. This is four years now that we have been together.

Buri

What matter most in a relationship are respect, love, trust and understanding. So try to let him know that you have this four attributes in the 4-year relation that you have both profit of a son. Tell him your mind, declare your full love for him and let him do same to you.

Then make him understand those that are calling you. Do not hide your call before him at the same time it is a good thing if you know each others movement. Study him and know what he likes and dislikes while you too should let him know about yours.

Lovers can not do without jealous especially in a discussion/chat that can almost carried one away. Upon the whole it is because you two are still young at the same time he does not want to loose you to another man. Good luck!

My sister doesn’t like my boyfriend

Lovelines

I am a young girl of 19. There is a guy that we both love ourselves but my sister does not like him. However, I do not want to have any problem with my sister. What should I do not to offend my sister and at the same time keep my boyfriend?

Banna

Use your initiative to find out the reason behind your sister coldness and why she is not accepting your dating the guy you love. If her reason is justifiable with her action towards your boyfriend, then leave him and move on. But if her reason is worthless make her understand how you cherish her as a sister and let her equally know the love you have and want to share with your guy.  Then check out the type of guy you are dating may be you can arrive on anything that can bring or allege to the hatred your sister has for him. Good luck!

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