I had been separated from my husband for almost a year and had filed for divorce. I had not been out in a long time and some friends convinced me to go to a birthday party at our local pub. I almost didn't go but something was telling me to. When I arrived I saw him right away. The man in black as I called him that night. He was gorgeous and I never thought that I would have a chance. I watched him off and on for most of the night and then he disappeared. I thought, well there goes your chance and then I looked up and he was sitting at the table next to ours. Our eyes met and it was instant kharma. He asked me to dance and as they say the rest is history. Our first date was spent going to the park and watching the fire works for the pan am games and it was wonderful. He never pressured me for anything and our first two weeks together were like being in a dream. No pressure for anything other than a kiss or a hug, I didn't think there were any men left out there like that anymore. We moved in together and he took my son as his own and treated us all fantastic. Unfortunately my wonderful man has a terminal illness now but we are still together as strong as ever and we have made a pact that I will find him in heaven. Watch the movie called "What Dreams May Come" and you will understand our love and devotion to one another. Even through all the tough times with his illness, he still treats me like a queen and does everything in his power to make me happy. When we are apart we are still connected, we know what each other is thinking and feeling. Fate, kharma, kizmet, whatever you want to call it...it brought my soul mate and forever love to me and gave me a second chance at love with a man that deserved me and that I deserved to have in my life. It is so wonderful to have their experience in my life. I wish that more people could be blessed with finding their soul mate, it would make the world a much happier place.