I have been going out with a guy now for over 18 months. I am 20 and he is 23, I surely love him and he claimed to love me too. We both have good jobs though we might need something better when it comes to monetary aspect. Since I know him, he always wants me to spend my earning on him.

It is not a big deal but he never one day show me any of his relatives, yet he wants to know mine. I do not allow him to visit me because of my parents at the same time I want to know his family so that I can  be sure of who he is before I can bear the risk to introduce him at home.  I visit him often and whenever he calls he always demand for money. Is this a good guy for me or is just hanging on with me because of what he’s getting from me?

Madeline

Before anything, Moliere said, "We are easily duped by those we love." I know before you say this out; he might have become his act because it is easy for a woman to spend on a man without the knowledge of anyone than a man to spend on a woman who will allow everyone to know about it.

I will rather say it is not bad if the man is jobless, but it is when he has a job. Whatever the pay is; he should be content with it. Since you know his level and he knows yours. If he can’t give you he should not demand often from you. It should be from your free will to give always. In other way round he can still demand if you are buoyant enough. All the same; probably his demanding for money despite he is also a salary earners might due to what he is pursuing.

So be patient with him but tell him that ‘luck never make a man wise’ he should be satisfy with his own purse. Ask him why he do not want you to visit his family if he really serious with you. Anyhow as we are approaching the festive period Tobaski, Christmas and New Year, it is the better time for you to know his parents and for you just to allow him once to visit you. Your parents will not be angry with this because it is the time to exchange pleasantries. Since he will round up what he is pursuing this year you can seize extending your generosity (money) to him to test his love. Doing that you will know if he is just crazy about you because of your money or not. Do not allow him to cajole you to collect money for the time being.

Be strict about this you will then know the type of guy he is to you. So you will be able to decide yourself maybe he is good for you or not. Remember; do not do it in a suspicious way. Don’t hesitate to feed Lovelines back on this. Good luck!