Lovelines,

I am staying with my aunt and her 3 kids while her husband, my uncle, resides abroad. He does come to the country ones every
year. But his friend is dating his wife, my aunt. I noticed this when she and I exchanged handsets because she was having a
low battery while she was going out. Browsing through the memory of her handset she exchanged for mine, a lot of secret
romantic love text between her and my uncle’s friend were opened to me. 

I wanted to tell her and the man but I just don’t know where to start it because she is very kind and caring woman, not to me
alone but everyone in the family. Tell me how to go about this.

Arafat

If I must tell you the truth I will say allow the sleeping dog to lye low, if you don’t want to regret your knowledge on
this. It might sound ridiculous to you but remember it is your uncle’s wife with three kids. They can turn it against you
because your evidence is inside her mobile in which she can quickly delete when words come to worst.

You can only bring her to notice if both of you share secret mostly confidential secret. Beside this do not chase invisible
ghost until you are strong enough to face and exorcise the ghost. But you can keep record of her action for future purpose.

Do not hesitate to call for more information if you do not understand what I mean. Good luck!


I do not know how to tell him

Lovelines,

We are both teenagers, not dating but we are nursing something special for each other. Or can I say I just love him more but
I don’t know how to tell him hence it is a guy who should do the talking.

More over I don’t want my friends to say am a guy chaser or cheap.

Olimatou

There is nothing like cheap or man chaser if you have the gut to declare your feelings to someone attracted to you.

It was in the olden days people thinks of that. This is a modern age things are changing anyone can make the first move
either young or old. Anyway there are different ways of doing this that will ignite a guy to know that you are dying for him.

Buy him some minor gifts that will not cost you a lot; on it write some different love notes that sound neutral but
meaningful to mature guys for him. Seldom touch his chic, ears, rub his jaw when you are together and always look direct into
his eyes when you are standing together.

He will never resist or know when to say or do what you expected of him. If you don’t get the logic well do make a call to
Lovelines for more explanation. Good luck!



Guys love me but I can’t love them

Lovelines,

I am a young girl of 18 but I still don’t have the right guy that I can love. Although those guys that have come across me
are always love me but I can’t reciprocate their loves. I want to be lonely by taking my time to see if I can find the right
guy I desires.

Sirrah

Good decision. That you do not love them is not a bad sign it is just that they are lacking the qualities you want in your
man. But do not turn down every man that come across you but be a friend and when the right man is around your instinct will
alert you. Good luck!



She agrees and disagrees

Lovelines,

I am a single man of 30.  I saw a caring, friendly and honest lady that can take care of me and my family. Initially we had
agreed to marry but now she turned me down and disagreed to our former agreement. What can I do to marry to lady?

Sinayokou

The only thing is to dialogue with her and asks for her reason for the disagreement. You clearly mentioned his caring,
friendly and honesty but you never mentioned how lovely you are to yourself. So evaluate her and yourself you might surely
have a clue to her sudden change of mind. But I will want you to love her not her worth. Good luck!



My wife shakes hand with her own brother

Lovelines,

I am married to a woman of different tribes. She bore three children for me but one of them died at birth due to her
negligent to my advice during her ante-natal period. Despite this, my wife flirts about to an extent of shaking hand with her
own brother.

I am sick and tired of this her adulterous game. Twice I have tried to divorce her but all to no avail. What can I do?

Musa

I will not advice you to lay off your wife because I am not going to give you another one. But if really your wife is as you
stated I don’t think her worth being a wife.

There is nothing permanent except change so try to talk to her and let her know how embarrassed and unhappy you feel on this
her carelessness and waywardness but if she refused to yield to your advise there is no reason for keeping her. Remember your
health is important to you, your family and your two kids. Good luck!



I am sick of betrayal

Lovelines,

I will be happy if you can cure me after a long sickness of betrayal from my ex lover. In spite of our dating for 3-year she
still betrayed me.

John

Betray is no more knew when it comes to love especially in a long time relationship. According to the Bible it said “Judas,
betrayest thou the Son of man with a kiss.” So in a relationship it is the unkindest cut of all. Therefore you have to put it
behind you and face the future. Good luck!



My mum has broken my heart

Lovelines,

I am 20 dating a boy of 26. We have been dating for 3 years, we love each other overly but my mum has broken my heart. She
told me to stop the relationship with the love of my heart simply because there is a man she wants me to marry. Passionately,
I dislike the man he is 40-year-old. My mother bent on the issue that the man was the one that pays for my school fees.

I really love my boyfriend so much. I am confused I don’t know what to do because we are both crying day and night how much
more to concentrate on my studies any more, Likewise my boyfriend, he can’t do his business.

Tunko

Mother chosen husband for their daughter is a grate phenomenon in this society that we found ourselves. Some called it
tradition; other says it is culture while the illiterates’ parents felt it is a right for them to chose or do what others has
done for theirs. If you really know that you do not love the man chose for you, do not hide your feeling before your mother
tell her the piece of your mind once and for all and do not forget to let her tell the man stop paying for you. You got
nothing to fear about his paying for your school fees it might be a coincidence or as Allah wish it to be.

You know your mind, read it very well and choose between two of them. Try to let her know the disadvantage of getting married
to him hence you are the one to stay in the marriage not her. Good luck!



A decision to stay away from women

Lovelines,

I am in my 20s in loved with a girl that I love very much. We were staying in the same house before she later transferred to
a far place. I loose her to another boy. But what keeps bothering me is that women always betray me.

Many times I meditate on this before I took a decision to do away with any woman and prefer to stay to myself. Is it that I
am having bad luck or what can I do with love?

Manlafie

Never have you worried yourself on what is not. You got no bad luck; all you need is to search yourself and if you can really
know if those ladies you ever dated love you and what do you want or desire for each one of them.

At the same times try to know the different between jilt and betray, love and like, want and desire, hope and wish, luck and
fortune – they are almost the same but slightly different. Think negatively of yourself, no, because you are still young to
do away with women. Good luck!



She keeps on calling him

Lovelines,

I am 19 in love with a man of 27. We have been dating for 8 months with so much love. I asked him about his past relationship
he told me about one of them who has married and pregnant. What baffles me is that this girl still calls him while he too is
still keeping her pictures. When I ask him about this he always tells me that he has nothing to do with her yet he do calls.

However he claimed to love me even his action shows this. I am so jealous because I am afraid of loosing him.

Fana

Let start from the rear; jealousy is nothing but the foolish child of pride. Therefore it is not love that is blind but
jealousy. So you should consider what La Rochefoucauld said that “jealousy is always born with love, but does not always die
with it.”

So since you know that his action reveals the love he have for you, there is no room for fear. All you need to add little
romance and good behave as ingredients to the love exists between you. Good luck!



Inability to choose

Lovelines,

It was just 10 months that I have called it quit with my ex but now she want us to reconcile and continue to read the poem of
love together in spite of my having another girlfriend. She is now promising heaven on earth for me.

We broke up due to my suspect that she was dating someone else. My new girl whom we have not had it practically done always
encourage and make me happy. Can I trust and continue with my ex who was with me through the Valentine day with nice gift?

Ben

Sometimes it is always proven hard to forget ex lover especially when the fault that causes the break up is flimsy excuses. 
You said the break up was cause do to you’re suspecting her. In this case try as much as possible to read and follow your
heart. Think if you really love her and compare to the second girl friend and particularly if your allegation is baseless.

If it is, get her back which means you are not certain of her been involved in give and take action beside you. Good luck!



I want to fall in love

Lovelines,

I am a man who has never fall in love before. Now that I wish to fall in love, how would I know my lover?

Lamin

You’re never fall in love as you mentioned did not say you have never dated before. What I want you to know that hindered
your falling in love is that you never meet someone that ignites your attraction. Probably you might have been in love just
for fun but not for real. So when you meet a lovely, romantic and cheerful lady before you know it you will gradually melt in
love. Good luck!



She is pushing me fast

Lovelines,

There is a girl I am dating, I asked her if she will marry me, she replied positively. Since then she is pushing me to do the
wedding ceremony fast but I am not financially strong. Is there any solution?

KA Johson

There is no solution than to fulfill the promise you had made. Hence you know that you are not financially strong to marry
then revoke your promise or you tell her to be patient with you because of your financial status.

You do not need to hide anything from her or continue keeping her for empty. All women like to hear from someone they love is
marriage so think very well and decide on either to keep her with genuine promise or tell her the cause of your uneasiness’

because you has raise her hope by asking her to marry you.  Good luck!


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