Your body has a language, which is special and appealing to others. Anytime you look at someone else speak to a member of the opposite sex, sit down or walk around.

Wherever you are in a social gathering or so, your body is definitely sending out one or two messages to someone somewhere around you. These messages tell the receiver many things about you. These messages include your feeling towards the receiver.

Either to a man or woman, it may just be about willingness and availability for a love affair. Sincerely, it is your body language that is asking and saying; "do you need me? I need you; I am in love with you." While the receiver or secret admirer is asking and saying "can you spare me a minute? I am dying for your love."

With these, there are different types of messages your body is sending. Among the messages are these top three. That’s how you feel about yourself. Secondly, how you feel about the other person and the third one, how you feel about the relationship or conversation you have.

So the meaning of these three messages are passed on by the way you stand, which is referred to as your posture. Spacing, this is the closeness at which you stand to the other person. Moreover, the most important among the actions is your eye movements. How much you look and focus at the other opposite sex in your mind as relates to your speech or discussion.

Your frequent gazing and glancing towards the man or woman you fancied is nothing but with "I need you; I am in love with you," I want you, please look at my eyes, I love you." A woman will like to use her eyes more to produce the same effect. Frequent glance towards the fancied man should be interpreted as crucial sign of interest. While men would like to fix their eyes and pass more jokes to woman of their interest,  women  will steal glances at the men they are interested in. Should the man look at her way, she will quickly take her eyes away from him. With style, she will look down or the other way or even give an impression of shyness.

It is always a sweet love if you are able to get this messages. It is a good love signal. Such love is always deep and fantastic throughout the period of dating. Would you like to have such a wonderful love? Yes, this is the answer of many people. But how many can understand these messages and follow them as love warranted. Open your eyes and make your mind free. The posture appearing before you are making  signals. Advance and grab it like a copy of your home video!

Love quotes

In  response to a reader of this column requesting for love quotation, this week, we have series of quotations for you  for your pleasure:

"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love."
"Attention is the most basic form of love; through it, we bless and are blessed."
"We love because it's the only true adventure."
"Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away."

"Love is friendship set on fire."
"Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing."
"To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anaesthesia."
"Sometimes love is stronger than a man's convictions."
"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness."
"May be love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it."
"Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside."
"Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature."

"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end."
"Love consists in this that, two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other."
"Where love is, no room is too small."
"Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place."
"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired."
"Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day."

"To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven."
"A love song is just a caress set to music."
"Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit."
"Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever."
"Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence."
"In the final analysis, love is the only reflection of man's worth."
"Love doesn't make the world go round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile."
"Oh, life is a glorious cycle of song. A medley of extemporaneity; love is a thing that can never go wrong…"

Agony corner


Lovelines;
I really love and cherish my friend. Recently we are having problem because she doesn’t like the guy I am going out with. She says nasty things about him and me. I don’t know her reasons behind this. I don’t mind whatever she says, because this guy is my heart’s desire. I can’t do without him!

Amie
Ask your friend the root of her sudden change. There must be a reason for nagging about your relationship, but if she cannot give you a single reason behind her nagging and ranting to an extent of nasty words, tell her to leave you alone when it comes to whom you go out with. Tell her that love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale.

Love loves; this is its nature when it comes to someone you love. But consider her words if she is able to give you at least one good reason for her hatred. Better still, watch both carefully, there might be something hidden somewhere but not open to you. Good luck!

Lovelines;
I love my girlfriend very much. I can’t leave her for a day. She too loves me as well, but due to some friends carrying rumours about my behaviour to her, she keeps off from me.  They lied to her about my behaviour. What can I do?

Abbas
Try to change your behaviour to good if there is anything like comma in your attitude.  Visit her and discuss things with her. Do not hide anything about what you know, that either your friends or her friends had said about you to her. Appear calm and let her know that you have turn over a new leaf.

Equally, let her know that if she loves you as you claimed, it is her right to reform you. Finally, behave well and know the type of friends you keep. Be at the right place at the right time. Good luck!

Lovelines;
I have a problem and I need your opinion. I always have heartbreak in every relation I have been into. I don’t know what to do.

Juka;
Try to be yourself in any relation you make. Do not fall for coercion, because it is one of the reasons that always cause you heartbreak. It will continue until you are able to meet someone  who really loves you and not selfish.  You have to know that ‘love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer.

To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down. If you don’t understand the equation, you can call me again for further information. Good luck!

Lovelines;
My friend’s girlfriend loves me. This was due to the fact that my friend did not show her love and kindness. Also, he was going out with his girlfriend’s best friend. It was when the girlfriend knew about this that, she started sending me love text and discuss with me in flirtatious manner.

I too got attracted to her easily. I must confess that I am now falling overly for her. Is it an abomination if I date her? Because anytime she visits me, she makes a move to cuddle me and I always lookforward to this.

Saikou
It is not an abomination but it can bring disrespect to you while some will call you a traitor. You might not foresee the embarrassment at the initial stage but after both of you are on your own. But to allow the chord of the friendship between you and your friend to remain, keep off. But if you know that you cannot really let the girl go, seek for your friend’s desire about the girl. If he says he is no more interested or he’s through with her, you can have her and take good care of her. But if he is still interested, keep off from her.

Upon the whole, it is advisable to seek for his opinion over the girl before you take any step because you both know each other through him. Sometimes love is a temptation. Good luck!

Lovelines;
I am a girl who has been in love for 2 years. My spouse and I love each other deeply. We both wish to spend the rest of our lives together but unfortunately, our (both of us) families say no to our desires. They said they would not give us their blessing.

Natcho;
There is something you need to know, but probably it might have skipped your mind. That’s parental decision over their children’s marriage in Africa. They attached more significance to their decision, forgetting their children’s feeling. Before both of you take a strong or negative decision against your parents’ wishes, you need to know the reasons for this unilateral decision. Think and respect their opinion if it worths consideration. Because attention is the most basic form of love; through it, we bless and are blessed." Good luck!

Lovelines;
I have never been in a relationship before until recent. However, a man chased me for 3 years without succeeding. But I accidentally fell in love with another man who happened to be his friend. I am confused that this man cries because of me. What can I do?

Mamading;
There is nothing you can do than to search your mind to know whom you really love between them. There are different things that can cling one to another when it comes to relationship. There is something in the guy you are dating which strikes your heart. It is arrow of love, perhaps which is not found in your first toaster. Love is different from liking.  

Therefore, you do not need to break your happiness in order to wipe his tears. You cannot force yourself to love him. Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place when you meet the right partner. That is why every love expert believes that love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.


Lovelines;
I am in love with a boy who doesn’t love me. I love him very much and cannot leave him. I don’t know what to do.

Minky;
You have to be more romantic to him. Use your most affectionate advances to conquer his heart. If he still doesn’t show interest in you, give up. Love doesn't make the world go round, but it is what makes the ride worthwhile. So, if he doesn’t, you don’t need to turn yourself to a cheap object because you want a lover. Good luck!


These are some Valentine’s text messages sent by readers to Lovelines.

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Valentine’s day is a day set aside for love ones… the most special day in the month of February… a day when two becomes one and love becomes more pure, where friendship is treasured and love being valued.  This is all about Valentine. I therefore take this opportunity to wish you a happy Valentine.

Barrow
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If a kiss were a raindrop, I’d send you showers. If a hug were a second, I’d send you hours. If a smile were water, I’d send you a sea. If love were a person, I’d send you the love of your heart!
MP
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My love for you will never end, and all the time that we will spend craving for our love is expansion and a new boundary extension. I can’t help but think about one last thing…will you say yes, or put me to the test…will you say no, when I have nothing to show.

Biri
Valentine’s Day is set specially for special people to have a special thought and appreciation. Thank you for being there for me. Thank you for your smile that has heal my soul. Thank you for your present that has made me the happiest girl on earth, and given you 10000 roses at Valentine.
Baby Marie.

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